Jennifer Lopez is turning a page in her life. She remains positive even after one of the toughest years of her life. After splitting from Ben Affleck in August after two years of marriage, sources say Lopez is focused on keeping the good times intact and moving on. Despite his ups and downs, there is one thing he is especially grateful for.
Lopez is focusing on both her and her children’s future, while appreciating the memories she shared with Affleck.
Jennifer Lopez is ‘grateful’ for beautiful memories with Ben
Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck were the ultimate couple goals, not just once, but twice. Their romance first thrilled millions in the early 2000s, and after rekindling their love, they got married in 2022. From their affectionate red carpet-appearances to their stylish outings and blended family moments, they seemed to be the epitome of love and unity.
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But after spending the summer apart on opposite coasts, Lopez filed for divorce, citing April 26 as the official date of separation. While the split was difficult for her, people close to Lopez say she believes in optimism, considering this chapter as something that was meant to happen. A source tells People, “Instead of feeling like she’s fallen on her face, she understands that it was meant to be. She’s just taking time out for herself.”
“She knows that she lives a privileged life in many ways. She’s so grateful for all the beautiful memories she has with Ben, the insider said. “But she is now focused on creating the best future for herself and her children.”
The Jenny from the Block singer has two children with her ex-husband Marc Anthony: Max and Emme. Meanwhile, Affleck shares three children with his ex-wife Jennifer Garner: Violet Anne, 18, Seraphina Rose, 15, and Samuel, 12.
‘Nothing’s going to change with Ben Affleck’
Rumors of Bennifer’s separation first surfaced after the couple began living apart, with Affleck moving into a rented house in Brentwood to be closer to his ex-wife and children. This came just months after Lopez proudly showcased her “greatest love story” in a documentary accompanying the This Is Me… Now album.
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Gradually, distance grew between them, with the pair missing important milestones, including their second wedding anniversary and Affleck not attending Lopez’s birthday celebration. After living apart for several months on opposite coasts, Lopez filed for divorce in July — right on the day of their second anniversary. Despite the decision, sources reveal that the filing was not what Lopez actually wanted.
“She didn’t want to file for divorce. She just felt like she had no choice. Nothing was going to change with Ben,” the source told the outlet.
Previously, several of JLo’s friends and sources close to the couple claimed that it was Affleck who first sabotaged their relationship, while Lopez wanted to make it work. While the singer has been focusing on her kids, Affleck has returned to his normal routine, as he’s been spotted back on film sets and in his production office.
